Fall is here & it's not very nice in upstate NY today. It's cold & rainy, perfect chili weather. October is not only Breast Cancer Awareness Month but also Domestic Violence Awareness Month. My family knows the pain of domestic violence well. Love should never include violence against your person. If you or anyone you know/love is being subjected to this horrible crime, help is out there to get you/your friend or family member(s) out.